Thursday, December 16, 2010

Holidays Cometh

How does it always seem that I manage to stay at the workstation longer than even I would like to? A morning turns into an afternoon, an afternoon an evening, and pretty soon its one more day. A metaphor for life perhaps? Nah, just my inner bum coming out once again. One semester has come and gone here in the Beninese school system, leaving one more for my carreer as a Beninese schoolteacher. Christmas break, always a welcome reprieve, hovers over my head as I anxiously wait for it to drop. Two more classes and it's upon us. I had never realized that vacations were more eagerly awaited for by teachers than students. I remember, as a student, always hating my teachers for not having a reason to go on vacation. As if we, as students, were the end-all-be-all of their lives. Well, for the thousands of students out there, I would like to apologize to my former teachers. I now know that you too have lives and are as annoyed with us, as students, as we are/were with you, as teachers. While the mornings and evenings find me in long sleeves and occasionally sweats, I'm sure the "winter" here cannot compete with the one back home. After watching an internet video of the Metrodome collapsing under snow I felt like a dog witnessing snow for the first time, confused and overjoyed at the same time. "Ah yes!," I seemed to say, "Snow does exist!", as if I had forgotten about the defining precipitous moments of Christmas since time immemorial for me and mine. As per usual in West Africa, no snow this year, but while driving through the bush country to visit a friend's farm I was reminded of past Christmases by the long rows of cotton interspersed amongst the yam rows and cashew trees. While the bush is rough, it is not wild. People and small villages line it's numerous winding roads and foot-trails. As we rode past the cotton fields, and bits of cotton fluff floated on by us, I was reminded of the month I was in. In spite of the heat and humidity, the dust and the dirt, it was December and somewhere in this crazy big world of ours snow was falling on my native Mid-West. While a pale substitution for snow, the little white bits flying by me could not but awaken my inner snowman. If only I could say I was there in the heartland in spirit. Alas, it seems spirit and body are here with me in Africa, Humanity's home, for this end of 2010, although Michigan, Indiana, Missouri, and Kentucky are never far from my mind. I know they'll always be there for me, as I'll always be there for them. Though distance my strain the bonds the bind, they cannot be broken, as love's connection is something reinforced by familial passion and not easily forgotten in foreign climes, no matter the heat or humidity. Africa may amaze me, as She constantly does, and speak to me, as again She does, but in my heart and soul I know my home and it's nestled amongst the lakes and hills of America's heartland. That being said, the holiday spirit is no where stronger than here in Benin. Food, non-stop, was on the agenda for the visit to my friend's farm as well as good old fashioned hospitality. I hope for some Midwestern wishes from Santa for Christmas, maybe he'll bring some African affection to my people back home.

2 comments:

  1. Well just a post holiday note to let you know how much you were missed at the Christmas festivities. We adorned the table with a picture of you so that your spirit would have a place to call its own. The theme this year was Under the Sea. Yep you guessed it seafood. Even though the food was good, the timing of the courses was a complete disaster. However, I do believe everyone had a full belly and a heart full of the blessing that we were able to spend another holiday together. We did have snow, which your little cousins enjoyed with sledding even before opening presents and seeing what Santa left in their stockings. The older cousins sat around and talked of holidays past and caught up on our lives this past year, with the exception of your mom, your sister and your Aunt Dee. They had to share their stories of how mistreated they were growing up. Now I had to defend not only you, your Uncle Joe, Jordan and myself against their allegations of mistreatment, but I could of used your help. I know that you and Jordan did not try to drown Em in the sprinklers as I and your Uncle Joe did not run away from your mother. But we had many laughs and our hearts were as warm as an African afternoon. Miss you and have a Wonderful New Year. Jeanie

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  2. P.S. Keep on humming those Christmas Carols, because when you reach my age shortly, humming will not suffice. And you will be belting them out, even if you are off key. Jeanie

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